An Affair-Proof Marriage

Truthfully, you can set all the boundaries you want. You can create all the rules you want. But there’s only one thing that can truly affair-proof your marriage

Pastors and Moral Failures: A Follow Up

The Church seems to look at the outward charismatic nature, the incredible gift of speaking—and overlook the moral character of some men.

Moral Failures and the Pastor

Many churches seem to welcome charismatic leaders who have moral faults.

Common Themes in Divorce

Most Christians divorce only after major problems caused by one spouse’s abusive, addictive, adulterous behavior. I hear the stories every day, and these threads seem to run through most every story.

Why I Am Thankful for my Husband’s Affair

I used to believe my husband’s affair was the worst thing that ever happened to me. Today, I am eternally grateful for it.

Toxic Men Vs Toxic Women

Most people believe men are capable of far greater abuse in relationships. I’m not so sure…

Why Roy? What to Look for in a Partner

Some of our high school friends have questioned why I chose Roy. Here’s my answer….

Unexpected Twists and Turns

Roy and I have experienced a few laughs this week showing the crazy twists and turns life can throw at us.

On Divorce and Jen Hatmaker

I don’t know where you stand on Jen Hatmaker’s theology, but I do know she needs us as Christian brothers and sisters right now.

The Life I Never Wanted

I am living a life I never wanted, and I am so glad God gives us what we need and not what we want.